NIGERIAN GIRLS AND THEIR ILL MENTALITY OF AN OBLIGATORY ROLE OF A GUY TO PERFORM THE DUTY OF AN ASSISTANT PARENT IN TAKING CARE OF THEIR FINANCIAL NEEDS WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP. 

    Money is a very vital phenomenon that's inseparable and indispensable from humans in our daily life activities. We need it all the time to keep up with the standards of life and live a worthwhile life by taking care of our financial needs. There's no doubt that money is one of the things that sustains human life apart from the free grace of life the Almighty bestowed on us, but how we get money, how we ask for money, and when we should ask for money really matters in our lives as self respect should be one of the things we should put into consideration when we hunt for money because someone looses his or face or self worth in a society when an individual looses his or her self respect; but its a different case with most Nigerian girls as they don't value self respect which has now made them to have an ill mentality that a guy should take care of their financial needs when in a relationship. Although, it's not bad if a guy gives his girl money out of love or when his girl is in need, it only makes the love stronger when a guy do so but it shouldn't be a compulsory thing. Nigerians girls and their ill mentality of an obligatory role of a guy to perform the duty of an assistant parent in taking care of their financial needs when in a relationship is now alarming in Nigeria and order of the day as Nigerian girls now take money as a yardstick to measure love in a relationship and has brought about the sick idea of "no money no love."

     Nigerian girls now use money as a yardstick for measuring love in a relationship because of the ill mentality they have that a guy must spend for them or must take care of their financial needs when dating a guy, not putting into consideration whether if the guy's working or not. They even go to the extent of always shamelessly demanding money from a guy they are dating which is absolutely wrong. A Nigerian girl will expect a broke guy she is dating who's still under his parents to be giving her money, I wonder where she wants him to get money from. Most Nigerian girls now love a guy if the guy is capable of giving them money which is very bad. Nigerian girls now see a guy not fit for dating or loving them if he can't take care of their financial needs. What annoys me the most is that some of these girls have families that takes care of them but still want to collect money from their boyfriend which shows the level of them not being contended with what they have. 

     Nigerian girls now download the above mentioned ill mentality as they grow up due to the corrupt and poverty ridden environment some of them grow up in. They activate this mentality to work as they enter into relationships as they now see it as a compulsory thing that their so called boyfriend should take care of their needs or must spend for them. It's not hard to find a girl in Nigeria being in love with a guy because the guy buys her stuffs and gives her money. It's still not hard in Nigeria to find a girl who jumps from one relationship to another just because their previous boyfriends can't take care of her financial needs anymore or don't give her money anymore which has led to silent prostitution as they now sell their body for money.

     With the above mentioned mentality which Nigerian ladies have, it has now made them to think that relationships are now a means of job opportunity when dating especially when their boyfriend is working. They now expect their boyfriend to perform an obligatory role of performing the duty of assistant parent by giving them money always or taking care of them even when some of them have parents who's taking care of them. The problem in Nigeria is that most of Nigerian girls are very lazy, extravagant and not contented with the little they have which has now made them to think that relationships are job opportunities as well as an avenue for having an assistant parent to give them money. 

     My philosophy about most Nigerian girls is that ones from poverty ridden homes and ones from average homes share the same ill mentality that a guy should perform an obligatory duty of an assistant parent in taking care of their financial needs or giving them money when dating a guy, of which Nigerian girls now see as a normal thing in a relationship as well as a compulsory responsibility to be fulfilled by the guy they are dating.

—Lawal Abdulhamid A.

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ENGRAVED IN UNREMEMBERED HISTORY.

A legion of army armed to death's taste
Married and made love to their languid corroded arms
Even befriended it too
Depart with their arms firmly gripped in their sour hands
In the same naked palms they used to sign their death warrant
Like volunteering to go on a suicide mission
But these great fallen souls goes unremembered
Like a chicken slaughtered for Christmas feast.

— Lawal Abdulhamid .A.

TIME.

When a sellsword wields his sword for a golden prize
Will the king and his retinue be left unslain?
When the full night crawls into position who dares waits for it?
When the cock crows who denies it's an early hour call?
When a suckling child is hungry won't the baby cry out loud to be breastfeed?
When the drums are remitting ravishing sounds pleasing to the ear
Won't we employ our body to dance to the sweet rhythm?
Why won't we stir the wheel of revolution when it's time?
Are we waiting for Jesus to perform his miracle
When he returns back to earth?

— Lawal Abdulhamid .A.

TRANSITORY ESCAPADE.

Today's not a market day but tomorrow will be
Today, a trumpeter blows his trumpet
Tomorrow he won't be able to
Today, damsels with unbeatable beauty stampede the ground
According to the rhythm of the drums
Tomorrow you will find them lying beneath shroud
Bearing another name.

Today, a man is a servant
Tomorrow he becomes a lord
Today, a man is a hunter
Tomorrow he becomes the hunted

Today is as peaceful as paradise
Tomorrow becomes a ground of second world War.

— Lawal Abdulhamid .A.

HEAVY HEART.

On a scorching day
Mr Sun donates his illuminating inferno on earth
Her baby is strapped on her weary vertebra 
Load dangling on her brooded upstairs 
Her child beside her drives one in the same manner
They are casted out abruptly from their abode
On their feet they opt for a solace quest
Colourful misty dust embraced their languid legs
To wish them good luck
Which no soul did
Tress bowed their heads to bade them farewell
Which no mortal did
Stems of leaves baced soft wind on them
To fraught them  spirit of hope they lost
The scorching sun shoned on them
To ignite illumination on the terrain
They are hiking on
Marching is the only propeller they have
To reach their desired destination.

- Lawal Abdulhamid .A.

HOW WE CONTRIBUTE TO THE JEALOUSY PEOPLE HAVE FOR US.

Humans are created from jealousness. People can't help it but to jealous when others have what they don't have. You know your friends or your siblings doesn't have a particular thing yet you brag in front of him or her that you have this you have that or you flaunt that thing in their presence or you tell them you have money when you know they are broke. What do you expect of them in return apart from "Jealousy". When you have something that others don't have or you think they will be envious of you don't brag with that thing or flaunt it in their presence, hide it from them if you can and live your life peacefully. Jealousy turns to envy, envy turns to wicked and devilish act. Don't let people harm you, always be careful of what you say, show off or post on social medias. Not everybody that laughs with you and call themselves your friend is truly your friend or your family, some are just the devil in disguise while some are the devil apprentice.

NIGERIAN PROBLEMS IS BEYOND PHYSICAL, NOW A SPECTRE.

The problems in Nigeria is now beyond ordinary human eyes. Everything is turning upside down on a daily basis, up from the elites who run the government administration of this country down to the citizens. The massive corruption game and greed game played on the Nigerian government ship is not a new thing anymore, all Nigerian citizens are aware of it. The rate of this game played in Nigeria is not a normal thing, it's something spiritual, imagine the masses in Nigerian are wallowing in abject penury and have thousands of unemployed youths in a great country that calls itself "Giant Of Africa". I think a negative energy is behind all these. Imagine the large number of pastors and mallams we have in this ungodly motherland of ours yet the game seize to exist. I doubt if these holy men are praying for Nigeria or God is not answering their prayers or they too are part and parcel of this nasty game. Another spectre issue is the game of Boko haram, it has refused to stop existing despite all the government's effort to delible it. This things has made me come to the conclusion that some thing dark and powerful is behind this and living bodies in our motherland are the vehicle that led to this awful games. Prayers from clean hearts of holy men; pastors and mallams are vital to help reduce these awful and deadly games played in Nigeria.